The Pressing Importance of Celebrating Birthdays

It’s not that celebrating birthdays is by its nature important for human life. There were societies or cultures where this was not a practice. I do not assert that birthday celebrations are an irreplaceable way of affirming and rejoicing in life. Other cultures expressed such affirmation and joy in other ways.

My assertion is that celebrating birthdays well has greater significance in our current circumstances. Why? In brief, on the one hand we lack contexts and customs that focus on the gift of life, and on the other strong forces undermine our sense of self and the goodness of life.

We might consider that in so many ways we are treated impersonally, as though we are just a number—even for instance if we shop at the same place regularly. (It was already hard when the check-out person became a constantly rotating job; the automated tellers now put a fine point on it.) We are so used to being anonymous, we have become numbed to it. Perhaps it has even become comforting.

This is the world inhabited by our young people. Their devices draw them in and then undermine the very connection they promised. Imagine the betrayal! The voices that should have been friendly tell them they must be a certain way to be accepted. They are constantly challenged to measure up. In all the wrong ways. In ways which either they cannot measure up, or if they do, they forsake their true selves. The dilemma and the isolation are terrifying.

And this is not just the problem of the young. We all face the anonymity, the depersonalization, and the isolation, along with the demands to forsake the better ways of living.

Celebrating birthdays well is far from a panacea or fix-all. But it can be a real humanizing stroke. It gives occasion to say things that need to be said. And need to be heard. It gives occasion to help someone feel the gift of being of human, and more, of being this particular person!

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Is this mushy or cheap psychology? Or is it an opportunity to do what is so needed, and the absence of which is so deeply, even while often unconsciously felt.

There are many ways to do it. It certainly does not require following the script of the oft overly commercialized ‘party.’ Particular trappings may or may not be used. What trappings are used can be invested with life-giving affirmation. We do this—whatever it is—because you are you. Maybe we are family, and we were witnesses to the joy of your birth. Perhaps we have come to know you later. But one way or the other, from a position more proximate or remote, we are here to say:

On this day from the bottom of our hearts we thank God that you exist. And though we still must go about our way, today is not just any day. The world would not and could not be the same without you. You are precious, and you are one of us. We love you, and we wish you every truly good thing. Today, and forever. Happy Birthday!

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What is a Birthday?

A birthday is a significant personal celebration, marking the anniversary of one's birth. It's a time-honored tradition across cultures, symbolizing the passage of time and the joy of life. This day often involves rituals like cake cutting, the singing of 'Happy Birthday,' and, of course, the exciting unwrapping of gifts. Birthdays serve as a reminder of personal growth and achievements. They are also perfect occasions for gathering loved ones, offering a prime opportunity to share joy and happiness. It is a celebration of the individual's journey and experiences.

The Historical Evolution of Birthdays

The tradition of celebrating birthdays has evolved significantly over time. Historically, birthdays were not just personal festivities but held cultural and religious significance, with roots tracing back to ancient civilizations. The Egyptians, for instance, celebrated the pharaohs' coronation dates as their birth into godhood. The Greeks offered moon-shaped cakes to Artemis as a form of tribute on birthdays. Romans were the first to celebrate the birthdays of common people, though initially only men. Over the centuries, these customs have transformed, leading to today's diverse and inclusive celebrations, which inspire an array of milestone birthday party ideas, embracing different traditions and modern twists.

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Why Do We Celebrate Birthdays?

We celebrate birthdays not just as a mark of aging another year but as a celebration of life, achievements, and personal growth. It's a time for reflection, gratitude, and looking forward to future possibilities. Birthdays provide a unique opportunity to gather with loved ones and create lasting memories. As we age, these celebrations take on deeper significance. For instance, planning 90th birthday party ideas becomes more than just a festivity; it's a homage to the enduring journey of life, a tribute to experiences gathered and wisdom shared. It's a way of honoring the individual's impact on the lives around them, marking the occasion with joy and appreciation for the years well lived.

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Why Birthdays Are More Than Just Cake and Presents

Birthdays, while often associated with cake and presents, hold a deeper significance. They are a symbol of the passage of time, a moment for honoring the journey of life. Each birthday is an opportunity to show appreciation and love, to reflect on past experiences, and to embrace future aspirations. The blowing out of candles on a cake, especially when using unique birthday cake candle holders, is more than a tradition; it's a moment of hope, making wishes for the future, and cherishing the present. It's these rituals and shared experiences that transform a simple birthday into a meaningful celebration, connecting us with our loved ones and creating cherished memories that last a lifetime.

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Conclusion

In conclusion, the tradition of celebrating birthdays goes far beyond the blowing out of candles and the unwrapping of gifts. It's a profound acknowledgment of personal growth, a celebration of life's journey, and an expression of gratitude for each year passed. Birthdays offer a moment to pause, reflect, and cherish the presence of loved ones, strengthening bonds and creating memories. They remind us of our journey, our triumphs, our challenges, and the preciousness of time. Each birthday, from the first to the 90th and beyond, is a milestone that deserves recognition and celebration, symbolizing the unique story of our lives and the love that surrounds us.

By John Cuddeback, Ph. D.

John is a professor of philosophy at Christendom College, where he has taught since 1997. He lectures widely on topics including virtue, fatherhood, friendship, and the household

I think we should be more intentional about celebrating birthdays. It’s something we all will benefit from. Especially today.